Friday, March 20, 2009

Esther Joy Travis

I wanted to tell you a little bit about my friend Esther Joy. I was blessed beyond measure to meet her last year at Fellowship Baptist Church in Borger. Esther Joy is a joyful, energetic 6 year old. She loves, playing with her siblings, horses, and elephants. She also desires to go with her parents to India and "tell people about Jesus and ride elephants."

On October 11, 2007 Esther Joy was diagnosed with Neuroblastoma Stage IV. Neuroblastoma is a very aggressive cancer and is extremely difficult to treat and to keep in remission. About 20% of children diagnosed with this cancer survive.

Esther completed 6 rounds of chemotherapy and a surgery that was able to remove the remains of the tumor. In the month of April 2008 Esther went through a stem cell transplant. During the transplant Esther developed VOD of the Liver and had lost 2/3 of her liver function. She spent five days in intensive care fighting for her life. She walked out of the hospital a week later a miracle of God's healing touch.

Just after their family returned to India last year, around Thanksgiving, Esther relapsed. Today, March 20, 2009, she is back in Tulsa. Her kidneys are still not working. We are doing some radiation to see if that might help things. Her doctor says at the current chemical build up she probably only be with us for about 2 or 3 more days. She is at peace, knows that her kidneys are not working right, and that if they don't start she will be going home to be with Jesus soon. She said " I want to go!" with a smile. Even though that hope is fading Esther's is not. She says,"Keep on fighting and if not I will see you in Heaven. Whether we win or lose we give God the glory."

Please visit her website on http://www.caringbridge.org and type in estherjoy to visit her page. Please pass this on, share it, and join me in praying for her and her family.

Spring Break

Spring Break is almost over. I so very much enjoy the wonderful time that we get to spend as a whole family, Vaughn, the kids and I. We've had such a great time.

Austin and Vaughn have worked on the house. Miss Bethanie has been going to work with Mommy and we've had a blast.

Probably the kids' favorite time was riding the horses. We had a great time at the barn. You can see all of the pictures I took that day at http://luskphotos.shutterfly.com .

The kids took us out on Tuesday night for dinner for my birthday and they are taking us out tonight to a movie for Vaughn's birthday. Its pretty special. That was their choice of what to do for our birthdays. They picked it and their father gave them the money. I have some pretty great kids.

My son made me a heart shaped rock last night by using another rock to shape it. My little girl reminds me everyday that I'm "the best mommy ever."

I can't wait until summer when they get to come back and spend a longer visit...and hopefully in the new house!!

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

SIX kids, one good picture?

Is it possible to take a good picture when you're dealing with SIX kids??? I was very optimistic until I actually tried. Photographers, the good ones, that can make 6 kids all look atthe camera and smile at once...you are my new heroes!!!


Take one:

Boy, must you have your finger in your nose???

Take two:
This one would atcually be awesome if William had decided to be a part of the group and sit with his sibs and cousins.

Eyes closed, nuff said...

That's my child, the boy in the back. Is he sneezing? Nope, just being silly.


This is going to have to be the one, after TEN tries, this is the best one I have, the very first picture ever with my sister's four kiddos and my two, I LOVE it!! Six ice cream and dirt covered munchkins that all belong to me in one way or another.

The theme from the Patty Duke Show pops into one's head when they see these two. The best quote of the day was when my sweet neice (on the left) said to her mother and I, "Oh yeah, ya'll used to be sisters." Yes, child, we used to be, now we're just Mommies.

My sister and her sweet William, one of her twins, who at this moment (to his father's dismay) loves the color pink and is just the cuddliest kid I've ever met. His brother, on the other hand, is Shakespeare in toddler clothes, the boy is all charisma. I can't wait to see what he becomes.




Ahhhh, the sweetest picture of the day. My baby girl snapped this as I comforted cuddle bunny, aka William, after his horrible mean terrible Mommy abandoned him with his Aunt Kaci so she could grab five minutes without kids and run to the Wal-Mart. Heaven, pure heaven, hugs from babies are the best thing ever!!!

Thursday, March 12, 2009

I'm here, at least in Spirit

Good morning, friends, I pray today finds you blessed. It seems like it has been forever since I have blogged. So much has happened. I will try to recap just a little today and then elaborate more as time permits.

THE SURGERY
Surgery went well. The pre-op nurse was kind of rude. He got mad at Vaughn, Robbie and I because we would not accept his "there is always a chance of this and this and this...." speech. By the way, while I'm on it, thank you, Robbie Yarbrough, thank you, thank you, for staying by Vaughn's side through that difficult day. It means more than you'll ever know, especially to the people you guys shared Christ with in the waiting room.

Back on track, surgery took about four hours. They made three small incisions and one large one and removed about six inches of damaged colon. I woke up in the recovery room and was angry at the nurse because she wouldn't let Vaughn come back there with me. It didn't really matter though, because I went right back to sleep and woke up in my room with my sweet man by my side.

Thank you to Dr. Dove, Dr. Culp and to the rest of Dr. Dove's shadows (interns) who took turns stitching me up. Thank you to my church family who were constantly in and out, checking on Vaughn and I. Thank you to Holly and Haley Ward for the wonderful gifts, and to Sandi Clark, even with everything you had going on, checked on me at least once a day. Thank you to my sweet Rina-Bina, the flowers were so beautiful!! Thank you to everyone who brought us meals, I tried to write Thank you's but if you didn't get one, know that your gift was such a blessing to our family.

THE HOUSE
All I can really say right now is WOW! The house is coming right along. SO many of the men from our church have been over there helping, bringing materials, and really bustin their tails to get it done. Its at the point now where Vaughn and I want to work non-stop because its coming together so well that we can see the end. I will post new pictures soon!!